This story is from a Mom new to Love and Logic. She did a fantastic job of applying the tools. What really came through this story is the strong emotional bond between parents and children. Also when you use humor to diffuse a situation, everyone benefits. Notice too how Mom called “Empathy” and “Brain Dead” [...]
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Mother’s Day continues to be one of America’s favorite holidays. On this most popular day of the year to dine out, book early to get a reservation at your favorite restaurant! Ever since 1914, when Woodrow Wilson made it an official national holiday, kids and their dads have used this special day as a way [...]
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Here are two stories from the same family. The first story is short and light hearted. This is one smart little girl! She catches on to the concept of Love and Logic. The use of Mom’s humor and light-hearted response is refreshing. The other story is a brave mom who stuck to her limits, didn’t [...]
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I wanted to try out the Uh Oh Song on my 4 year old daughter when I learned it a few weeks ago, but I was disappointed an opportunity didn’t arise… until yesterday. I was vacuuming the house, when I went into the guest room/office and discovered a can of Pringles with its contents spilled [...]
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Springtime is a time to celebrate: warmer weather, gardens blooming with tulips and daffodils, a break from the school schedule, family gatherings with food and fun, and for some a meaningful religious holiday. However you approach this holiday season would you like…. * Simple and healthy side dish ideas to serve with your Passover or [...]
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Jim shares this story about a conversation he had with a Mom who made a great discovery about how going Brain Dead can enhance her relationship with her child and keep her from getting angry. This mom glowed with excitement as she rushed up to me minutes before the conference began. “Jim! I made the [...]
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The Super Bowl is more than a football game-its tradition! For some, it doesn’t matter so much who wins or loses; it’s all about the half time show and of course the amazing commercials that everyone loves to talk about the next day. And it’s the perfect event to bring the family together. After a [...]
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Doing chores around the house helps to develop and raise healthy children in three important ways: 1. Gives children a sense of responsibility and belonging. 2. Allows a way for parents to encourage children saying, “Well done” when a job is completed. 3. Provides a process for building self-esteem. Chores are another way you can [...]
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I am excited to announce that I am the teacher/facilitator of the Baby Play Class at Day One in Palo Alto at Town and Country! We meet every Tuesday from 3:30-4:30, so nap time will be over and your baby will ready for an adventure! Once a week, stop by Day One in the Town [...]
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4 Stress Relief Tips to Better Enjoy the Holidays… and make Shopping Entertaining & Decorating a Breeze! Its official, the holiday season is here! Does just thinking about all the shopping, entertaining, and decorating and your ever-shrinking budget send you into a tizzy? Relax. With a bit of thoughtful preparation and some helpful parameters, you [...]
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Michael’s teacher commented, “I noticed your son says “thank you” quite often. And he’s sincere as well. “Tell me how you’ve encouraged this.” Michael’s mom, “Well, mostly we got tired of him not acknowledging or appreciating all the nice things we did for him. My husband and I were bothered by it until we had to admit, [...]
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“Getting my son 8 year old son Chris to put on his jacket is typically a struggle. Even on rainy days. Don’ know why-just is. We were getting to leave for school and Chris was absorbed in doing a puzzle. I decided to offer choices. He wasn’t resistant (yet) and choices get cooperation, right?” So [...]
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How well does it usually go for you when you introduce a new food to your children? I’m guessing sometimes not so good. Children are creatures of habit and are not usually enthusiastic about changes in their diet-or other changes as well. Find out how this clever mom and dad introduced a new food to [...]
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Have you Forgotten Empathy? It’s the simplest yet most difficult skill. It’s the most powerful yet hardest to do. It makes the difference between our kids learning responsibility versus learning resentment. It’s the heart of Love and Logic, and it’s key to making just about any parenting technique work. Those familiar with Love and Logic [...]
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The Brain Dead Tool involves using a “one-liner” approach to whatever your child is arguing with you about. The goal is to disengage from what they are saying, because it is unimportant and very likely manipulative. Remember: Children argue because they are testing your limit. That is their job. YOUR job is to hold firm, [...]
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“After the Love and Logic session on “Offering Choices” I started right in giving many choices. My husband had sometimes thought I gave the kids too many choices and that it wasn’t really necessary. Instead of trying to convince him it would help get our kids to become more cooperative, I simply started offering choices [...]
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Becoming a Love and Logic Parent This class is for parents of school-aged children. Learn the 12 tools that help with stopping backtalk, arguing, disrespectful behavior, help with homework time, getting chores done on time, and learn how to come up with consequences when you can’t think of any at the moment. We will also learn [...]
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Jason was having a bad day on the soccer field, yelling out criticisms to his teammates. “Settle down, Jason,” warned his coach. “Give the others a break. It’s not all about you. Share the ball or I’m going to have to pull you from the game.” Hearing this, Jason ran screaming at two of the [...]
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Thank you very much for teaching the Love and Logic class. The parenting methodology my wife and I learned made an immediate and positive impact with our 3 year old daughter. It’s as if we finally found the parenting instruction manual we’ve been looking for. We’ve embraced the four basic principles of: 1) Building the [...]
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Who doesn’t enjoy this fun holiday? Kids love to get dressed up in their favorite character and parents have the fun of putting together the costume, even for little ones who don’t quite get it yet! Yes, it’s fun to take those pictures, but there are some down sides to Halloween. Gone are the days [...]
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